BEAUTY and CHARACTER. It takes both to find and be found by someone special. So close they are that one is sometimes mistaken for the other. Only, some people sees beauty as everything. So disheartening.
I've had a few relationships in the past. I should say, i don't recall paying that much attention to beauty. I may have looked, but to pay attention requires my focus. And focusing on beauty is something fancy for me. I was always impressed with character. And only then will I pay attention to beauty. As far as I recall how the relationships went, all with precious memories. [kilig!] I was talking about years ago. Now, the perspective of being in love on character is a shot-on-the-moon instance.
It's funny how relationships based on beauty begin and end. But it's the trend. No matter how good your character is, people will see it blurred if beauty is insufficient. Worst, they may just think of lust as reason for taking a chance to date. Distressing, but in most cases, true.
In these days, it becomes a mind game to figure out intentions of a person you are dating with. The result can be depressive, but one may take risk for a slim chance of finding someone true. It may somehow be unfair how I anticipate outcomes negatively, but better than to expect much and lose confidence.
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